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As a coach who works with leaders, we often focus on strategy, vision and results. While these aspects are undoubtedly crucial, there is another equally important element that can make or break a leader’s success: empathy. In times of change, uncertainty and disruption, leading with empathy is not just a nice-to-have but a necessity to foster resilience, engagement and trust.
In fact, a recent study found that empathy significantly increases innovation and engagement. In this study, 61% of employees with empathetic leaders felt more innovative than those without (13%); 76% of employees with empathetic leaders reported being engaged, while only 32% of employees without empathetic leadership were engaged.

Empathy is the ability to understand and share the feelings of others. It involves putting yourself in someone else's shoes, listening with an open mind and responding with compassion and understanding. In today's fast-paced and increasingly digital world, where human connection can sometimes take a back seat to productivity and efficiency, cultivating empathy has never been more critical.

What Does It Mean To Lead With Empathy In Times Of Change?
First and foremost, it requires good old-fashioned active listening. As leaders, we must create space for our team members to voice their concerns, fears and aspirations. This means being fully present during conversations, asking probing questions and truly seeking to understand the emotions behind what is being said. By demonstrating genuine empathy through listening, we validate others' experiences and build trust that transcends hierarchical boundaries.

For example, Marcia, the CEO of a tech startup, holds regular one-on-one meetings with her team members. During these meetings, she asks open-ended questions that go beyond their work tasks and listens to their concerns, ideas and feedback without interrupting. Marcia had to learn to stop offering solutions immediately and instead listen intently, validate their concerns and collaboratively devise a plan to address issues together.

Acknowledge And Validate Employees' Feelings
Another key to leading with empathy involves acknowledging and validating emotions. Change evokes a wide range of feelings, from excitement to fear and resistance. Instead of dismissing or minimizing emotions, empathetic leaders recognize their legitimacy and provide a supportive environment for individuals to express themselves authentically.

For example, the CEO of a healthcare organization held a town hall meeting to discuss potential changes to the company's benefits package. During the meeting, several employees expressed concerns about the proposed changes impacting their families, particularly dependents who required specialized care. Instead of dismissing their concerns, he listened attentively, took notes and asked follow-up questions to ensure he understood.

He assured employees that their feedback would be taken into consideration during the decision-making process and promised to explore alternative solutions. By listening with an open mind, people felt heard, and he was able to show his commitment to understanding the concerns of his employees and finding mutually beneficial solutions.

Transparency And Honesty
During times of change, empathetic leadership also requires transparency and honesty. All too often, in times of uncertainty, I see leaders either sugarcoat the truth or withhold information to avoid causing alarm. This approach often backfires, eroding trust and credibility in the long run. In fact, the board of directors of a nonprofit organization had a major backlash from staff and donors due to the CEO’s restructuring that resulted in layoffs without any transparency in the process.

In contrast, Sarah, the CEO of a manufacturing company, gathered her leadership team to discuss a potential restructuring plan that could result in layoffs. Rather than making decisions behind closed doors and surprising employees with sudden changes, she chose to initiate a series of town hall meetings where she openly shared the company's financial challenges and the need for restructuring to ensure long-term sustainability.

Sarah encouraged employees to ask questions and express their concerns, fostering an environment of open communication and trust. Then she provided regular updates and remained transparent about the criteria used to determine who would be affected by the restructuring.

No one likes bad news, but they appreciate the honesty and transparency in the process. Empathetic leaders who share both the successes and challenges with their people while being authentic can build greater trust, foster solidarity and build greater ownership of the change process.

Support And Resources
Showing empathy in times of change may require providing support and resources to help individuals cope with change. James, a team leader at a marketing agency, noticed that one of his team members, Alex, was consistently missing deadlines and producing subpar work. Instead of reprimanding Alex, James scheduled a private meeting to discuss the issue.

During the conversation, Alex shared some personal challenges he was facing outside of work, including a family health issue and financial strain. James responded with compassion and understanding and offered support in any way he could. Together, they developed a plan to adjust deadlines and redistribute workload to alleviate some of the pressure.

By responding with compassion and understanding, James not only helped Alex overcome his challenges but also strengthened their work relationship based on trust and mutual respect. Whether through mentorship, coaching or access to mental health services, empathetic leaders prioritize the well-being of their people and invest in their personal and professional growth.

Final Thoughts
Change is often messy and rarely unfolds according to plan, so leaders need to be adaptable in their approach and celebrate progress and resilience. People respond to change differently, and empathetic leaders understand they may need to adjust their approach to support people while they navigate the change.

It’s essential to acknowledge and celebrate the small wins and milestones along the way, no matter how insignificant they may seem. By recognizing and appreciating individuals' efforts and contributions, you can reinforce a culture of positivity, optimism and resilience that fuels continued progress and success.

Leading with empathy in times of change is not just a leadership style; it is a mindset and a way of being. You can create a culture where individuals feel heard and valued amid uncertainty and disruption by prioritizing active listening, emotional validation, transparency, support, flexibility and celebration. I hope you embrace empathy and harness its transformative power to navigate change with grace, compassion and resilience.